Bar & Bat Mitzvahs
Celebrate Life’s Meaningful Milestones
Our versatile spaces provide the ideal backdrop for Bar and Bat Mitzvahs. Our dedicated team provides comprehensive planning support, customizable catering options, including Kosher selections through outside vendors, and state-of-the-art facilities to create a memorable celebration and ensure the best experience for your guests.
The Great Room
With soaring 23-foot vaulted ceilings and panoramic views, The Great Room creates the perfect setting for your Bar or Bat Mitzvah celebration.
- 4,000+ sq ft of flexible space (61′ x 67′) ideal for both the service and reception.
- Customizable layouts for over 200 guests with ample room for dancing and entertainment.
- State-of-the-art audiovisual system perfect for Torah service projections, montage presentations, and DJ/band setups.
- Versatile space that can be configured for candle-lighting ceremonies, themed food stations, and activity zones.
- Adjustable space with natural air wall for more intimate gatherings or to create separate adult and teen areas.
The Welcome Room
The perfect space for pre-function gathering and showcasing your child’s journey.
- Ideal for pre-ceremony gathering.
- Cocktail hour space for evening receptions with passed hors d’oeuvres or stationary offerings.
The Pavilions
Our two open-air pavilions offer a meaningful connection to nature for your celebration.
- Beautiful setting for Havdalah services or outdoor Torah readings.
- Perfect backdrop for family photos and group portraits.
- Versatile space for themed food stations or interactive activities.
- Ideal location for outdoor games and teen-focused entertainment.
- Comfortable covered space that connects celebrants to the natural world.
Outdoor Spaces
Our serene grounds provide numerous opportunities to enhance your mitzvah celebration.
The Lawn: Expansive space perfect for fun kid activities, or lawn games that keep younger guests engaged throughout the event.
The Terrace: Overlooking the pond and 18th hole, this covered space offers a perfect setting for the service, DJ, and games, and all guests flowing in and out of the ballroom.
The Fireplace Patio: A beautiful stone outdoor lounge for cocktail or mocktail hour or a quiet space during the festivities.
Additional Spaces
Farmhouse Bistro and Bar
- Perfect for intimate family dinners before or after the main celebration.
- Speak-easy atmosphere for adult gathering space.
- Bar seats 30 plus standing room for up to 40.
- Restaurant seats 50 for family brunches.
Private Dining Room
- Intimate space for family blessings or small religious ceremonies.
- Private area for the Bar/Bat Mitzvah child and immediate family.
- Gas fireplace creates a warm, meaningful atmosphere.
Mitzvah Suite
- Dedicated preparation space for the Bar/Bat Mitzvah child and family.
- Private bathroom and full-length mirror for last-minute outfit adjustments.
- Secure area for storing personal items, gifts, and ceremonial objects.
- TV and Bluetooth hookup for music while getting ready.
Host Your Pre-Mitzvah
Golf Outing
Make the celebration last all weekend with a pre-event golf outing on our championship course. With nearly 7,000 yards of pristine play and scenic fairways, it’s the perfect activity for family members and friends traveling in for the celebration.
Bar & Bat Mitzvah Services
From traditional to contemporary celebrations, we provide comprehensive support to honor this significant milestone in your child’s life.
Planning & Coordination Services
Our experienced event professionals manage timelines, layout, AV needs so you can focus on the celebration.
Kosher & Customized Catering
Work with our culinary team to create custom menus that respect tradition while delighting guests of all ages, from elegant plated dinners to interactive food stations.
Celebration Spaces
From our grand ballroom to intimate gathering areas, we offer versatile spaces that accommodate both the service and celebration components of your event.
Teen-Friendly Amenities
Dedicated spaces for activities, dancing, and entertainment that keep younger guests engaged throughout the celebration.
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Create Meaningful Memories at The Crossvines
A Perfect Blend of Tradition and Celebration
Get in touch today and discover how our unique setting and professional team can create a meaningful Bar or Bat Mitzvah experience for your family.